{"id":12020,"date":"2011-05-30T12:26:00","date_gmt":"2011-05-30T12:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dwarkaparichay.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/tales-of-lust-and-sleaze\/"},"modified":"2018-06-13T18:00:28","modified_gmt":"2018-06-13T12:30:28","slug":"tales-of-lust-and-sleaze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwarkaparichay.com\/blog\/tales-of-lust-and-sleaze\/","title":{"rendered":"Tales of lust and sleaze"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: left;\" trbidi=\"on\"><b><i><br \/>\n<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<p><b><i>Joginder Singh ji<\/i><\/b><br \/>\n<b><i>Former Director &#8211; CBI<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Dominique Strauss-Kahn is not the first high-profile person to face&nbsp;charges of sexual misconduct, nor shall he be the last.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what people may say, most of us are interested in tales of&nbsp;sleaze, lust and illicit sex. But the important thing for the person&nbsp;indulging in either sleaze or illicit sex or both is to remain&nbsp;discreet and within limits. Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who has had to&nbsp;resign as managing director of the IMF after being accused of and&nbsp;arrested for attempting to rape a maid in a posh Manhattan hotel, has&nbsp;a long history of such deeds. He is currently on bail.<\/p>\n<p>Ms Tristane Banon, the 31-year-old god-daughter of Strauss-Kahn\u2019s&nbsp;second wife Brigitte Guillemette, claims he attacked her almost&nbsp;similarly during a television interview when she was a trainee&nbsp;journalist. Strauss-Kahn, then an Opposition leader in France, had&nbsp;offered her an interview in a studio apartment in Paris. She was 22 at&nbsp;the time of the incident and was persuaded by her mother, a regional&nbsp;councillor in the Socialist Party and friend of the Strauss-Kahn&nbsp;family, not to take any action. \u201cAt the time there was absolutely no&nbsp;doubt that it had happened. My error at the time was to think that it&nbsp;was a moment when he went off the rails,\u201d recalls Ms Banon\u2019s mother<br \/>\nAnne Mansouret.<\/p>\n<p>Sex workers are available at every nook and corner in American and&nbsp;European cities. Had Strauss-Kahn been found in their company, he&nbsp;could have got away as it would be consensual sex and not attempted&nbsp;rape as in the present case. Yet, that would not have discounted the&nbsp;fact that ethics, values and morals are vital for those holding&nbsp;important positions, for instance the top job at the IMF. But&nbsp;Strauss-Kahn is not the first high-profile person \u2014 nor will he be the&nbsp;last \u2014 to be charged with sexual misdemeanour. Others have gone down&nbsp;this road before, including several Presidents of the US and powerful&nbsp;people in other countries.<\/p>\n<p>Mr Bill Clinton is only the latest US President to be impeached for&nbsp;lying under oath over his affair with a White House intern, Ms Monica&nbsp;Lewinsky. Other American Presidents who are guilty of extra-marital&nbsp;sex include Thomas Jefferson: This has been been confirmed through DNA&nbsp;testing on his descendants in 1998. A later study by the Thomas&nbsp;Jefferson Foundation came to the same conclusion \u2014 he had fathered a&nbsp;child out of wedlock.<\/p>\n<p>Before Grover Cleveland became the President of America, a store&nbsp;clerk, Maria Halpin, named him as the father of her illegitimate son.&nbsp;Cleveland didn\u2019t dispute the charge, and the child was quietly&nbsp;adopted. Similar allegations were made against Presidents John F&nbsp;Kennedy, Lyndon B Johnson and Franklin D Roosevelt.<\/p>\n<p>Indian politicians tend to keep things under wraps. The media, even if&nbsp;it gets a whiff of sexual escapades by politicians and the high and&nbsp;mighty, tens to play it safe to avoid charges of libel. But sometimes&nbsp;nasty stories do get out into the public domain. A Governor of Andhra&nbsp;Pradesh was caught on a hidden camera in his Raj Bhawan bed with three&nbsp;women. The tape was telecast by a Telugu channel. The Andhra Pradesh&nbsp;High Court subsequently restrained the channel from showing the tape.&nbsp;As it happens in most such cases in India, nobody confesses to his or&nbsp;her involvement. So also with this case: The incident was denied. But&nbsp;it led to the resignation of the Governor who is now involved in a&nbsp;paternity suit \u2014 a young man has claimed that he is his biological&nbsp;father. Sex scandals involving senior politicians have been reported&nbsp;from many States.<\/p>\n<p>Amarmani Tripathi, erstwhile Cabinet Minister in Uttar Pradesh, was&nbsp;arrested in September 2003 in connection with the death of poetess&nbsp;Madhumita Shukla with whom he allegedly had an affair and who was&nbsp;brutally murdered. Investigations revealed that she was pregnant and&nbsp;the DNA of the foetus matched that of Tripathi. The Supreme Court&nbsp;rejected his bail plea; he is currently in jail, sentenced to life&nbsp;imprisonment. There are such other examples. Uttarakhand\u2019s Revenue&nbsp;Minister Harak Singh Rawat had to resign in 2003 amid allegations of&nbsp;his \u2018links\u2019 with an unwed mother. Opposition members had raised the&nbsp;issue of his alleged affair with the Assamese woman who later gave&nbsp;birth to a child.<\/p>\n<p>Charlatans posing as swamis have also been charged with sexual&nbsp;assault. For example, Sun TV telecast a tape showing a Karnataka-based&nbsp;godman in a compromising position with a Tamil actress. Swamis are&nbsp;supposed to lead the life of a celibate or a brahmachari. They are not&nbsp;expected to indulge in worldly pleasures. They are expected to follow&nbsp;high standards of moral integrity. But some of them are exposed for&nbsp;what they are.<\/p>\n<p>Had Strauss-Kahn, or any other foreign dignitary, had committed a&nbsp;similar deed as the former IMF chief has been charged with while&nbsp;visiting India, nothing would have happened. The hosts would have&nbsp;flatly denied the occurrence of such an incident and charged the&nbsp;person levelling the allegation with trying to ruin a person\u2019s&nbsp;reputation. The same argument would have been proffered if a \u2018VIP\u2019 is&nbsp;charged with any major crime, including corrupt practices.<\/p>\n<p>When I was heading the CBI, I had ordered that the Chief Minister of a&nbsp;State be arrested for his role in the infamous fodder scam. The then&nbsp;Prime Minister had reacted by saying that the CBI had ruined many a&nbsp;reputation without a shred of evidence. Assessing the credibility of&nbsp;the evidence gathered by the investigating agency is the job of the&nbsp;courts. Since the Government of the day did not dare interfere in the&nbsp;judicial process, I was transferred from CBI for not being pliant. The&nbsp;transfer order was issued while I was abroad attending an Interpol&nbsp;conference.<\/p>\n<p>We also know that in our country pressure is often applied on victims&nbsp;or complainants to withdraw charges. If pressure does not work, then&nbsp;money is used to for striking a \u2018compromise\u2019. Sadly, even the media is&nbsp;amenable to pressure and blacks out news of such incidents. If at all&nbsp;the story appears in print or goes on air, the details are at best&nbsp;sketchy.<\/p>\n<p>There is a lesson to be learned from the manner in which the US&nbsp;authorities have treated the Strauss-Kahn affair: No matter how&nbsp;important or powerful a person is, he should not be allowed to get&nbsp;away with criminal deeds, including sexual offences, by using&nbsp;connections and clout. The effort should be to ensure swift and fair&nbsp;trial so that the perpetrator gets his just deserts.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, those who take sexual assault and related offences lightly&nbsp;would do well to ponder over this: Sex is not the answer, sex is the&nbsp;question. \u2018Yes\u2019 is the answer, but only if the other party is willing.&nbsp;As Don Schrader once famously said, \u201cTo hear many religious people&nbsp;talk, one would think god created the torso, head, legs and arms, but&nbsp;the devil slapped on the genitals.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Joginder Singh ji Former Director &#8211; CBI Dominique Strauss-Kahn is not the first high-profile person to face&nbsp;charges of sexual misconduct, nor shall he be the last. No matter what people may say, most of us are interested in tales of&nbsp;sleaze, lust and illicit sex. But the important thing for the person&nbsp;indulging in either sleaze or illicit sex or both is to remain&nbsp;discreet and within limits. Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who has had to&nbsp;resign as managing director of the IMF after being accused of and&nbsp;arrested for attempting to rape a maid in a posh Manhattan hotel, has&nbsp;a long history of such deeds. 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